Showing posts with label self-esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-esteem. Show all posts

Wednesday, 7 August 2013

Success Now: Take the Initiative


They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself. – Andy Warhol (Philosopher)
In the most popular, I think, story Jesus told to illustrate life issues, he spoke of a king who distributed gifts of money to three of his most trusted servants. The first and second invested their monies and acquired profits. The third, which was given least, hid the money and returned it without profit. While the first two were praised and given more the third was rebuked and punished.
One interesting thing to note in that story is that though the monies were given to them, they were not told what to do with them. The king did not hint exactly in what areas they were to multiply what was given. No bar was set to determine a standard for success. They were left on their own to take initiative and multiply what they had. It is of this I write.
To succeed in life you must develop the habit of taking initiative. Resist the temptation of waiting for instructions from someone else before you take all actions. Do not be afraid of taking the blame of trying and failing. Rather dread the failure that comes to a cause due to your inaction – irrespective of if others see you as the cause of failure or not.
All leaders take initiative. They think for themselves, identify what need be done in a situation and take the necessary action. It is this attitude of taking initiative that stand them out of the crowd of mediocre folks and anoint them leaders.
To develop the attitude of taking initiative you must develop a healthy self-esteem. If you think you can’t, you probably can’t. If you think that the solution of a problem cannot come from you, you will fold your hands and watch. If instead you think that you have the capacity to solve a problem you will rise up to the occasion.
Also, you must see yourself as responsible. When there is a task at hand, have an attitude that says, it is not somebody’s responsibility, it is my responsibility. The work at hand must be done even if it means you add it to yours. When responsibilities are assigned to people it should be to enhance effectiveness. When we insist on keeping strictly to segments, not considering if one part of the work is pulling the whole lot down, we are not taking initiative.

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Self-Esteem VS God-Esteem

But Moses said to God, "Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?" - Moses (the Prophet)
             

                 Have you ever felt charged up and motivated to get a venture going only to wake up the next morning and feel completely incapable? If you are like me you would have probably asked yourself if you sensed correctly the vision that you professed. You are not alone in this. Moses (that great prophet the split the Red Sea) asked, “Who am I, …?” Jeremiah said, “I am a child!” Gideon wondered if the Lord was with his nation, and Jacob confessed: “I am A Crook!”
            It is very human to feel insufficiently equipped to bring to reality the dreams and visions in our hearts. So the fact that you are in that shoe isn’t new at all.
            We feel this way when we look inward – our insufficient education, limited money, debatable beauty, obvious physical inabilities, and a host of other hindrances. We never seem to get to the point where we are ready to take the bull by its horns and conquer it.
            We will remain in limbo unless we look elsewhere for the strength to accomplish. We must look to God. It is in God that we find our true estimation. Forget self-esteem, try God-esteem! God does not deny our incapability; he knows them all too well and has appropriate responses to them. He said to Moses, “I will be with you,” to Jeremiah he said, “Do not say “I am only a child,”” to Gideon, “Go in the strength you have,” and to Jacob, “Your name will no longer be A Crook but A Prince…”
God's True estimation of YOU
            For analogy sake, imagine God as a mirror. Just like the mirror which reflects your outward image, God reflects who he esteems you to be. You can only estimate yourself correctly when you look at you through God’s eyes. Be like David who said of Goliath, “The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine.” It is only then that you will have assured success.